Saturday, May 23, 2009

Kind of a blue weekend

It's been a long day. I had to come to work early this morning and set up for this movie sale we were holding today. I busted my butt last night to get everything priced and ready and this morning hubby, the three kids and I were up, breakfasted, showered, dressed and out of the house by 8:30 a.m. No small feat with small children.

We set up our wares outside (we were holding the sale in the courtyard) and carefully placed the signs that I had so industriously created the night before. I did a fine job, if I do say so myself, on the signs.

Sounds good right? Right. Only it took 2 hours for my first customer to show up. They turned out to be the most profitable sales of the day. The other big buyers were my in-laws. Go figure. She wanted to buy some cheap movies for when the grandkids are over. Good idea and best of all, she doesn't expect them for free.

CAUSE WE NEED THE MONEY!!!!

A lot of extra time and effort for a very small return.

Because my store is dying. There. It's out there in black and white. This store that I have put a lot of sweat, stress, time, effort and planning into is probably and I do mean in all likelihood going to bite the big one. You know things are bad when my business partner, who also happens to be one of my SILs, actually said it's time to set a deadline. If things don't pick up by June 15th, we're going to try to sell it as a business to someone or do a closing out of business sale.

Phew.

My parent in laws and even my own mother have been pushing my SIL and I to make some sort of decision regarding the store for a while now. If we're not making very much money, why are we doing it? That's a very good question.

The simple answer is: we keep hoping that things will get better. We have improved not only the function of our store but also increased our sales since we purchased it 5 years ago. Problem is, it's just not a big enough money maker. We had some initial issues with over purchasing etc because we were just learning the business and subsequently we've fallen into some debt. We were doing much better last summer but when this whole recession thing hit well... it may have taken some time for the effects to be noticeable but it's finally here. Sales have definitely been down the last few months.

The more complex answer is how do we put out to pasture something that we've worked hard on for the past five years. My pride is going to suffer big time by the end of the summer, especially if we have to simply do a close out sale. I am not looking forward to having to explain to our more loyal customers. It's pretty hard to admit to yourself that you have failed never mind to our entire family and friends. Oh yeah.

I can go round and round and round trying to figure out what went wrong and I can't really say it's any one thing.

On top of this we have this house which is simply not selling. My inlaws are pushing us to move out and go rent a house in the town where we are planning to relocate. This makes no sense to me. Why would we pay rent and a mortgage? It's crazy. But that's what they think we should do. There is some vague reference to do you think it will be easier to sell the house without all the kid stuff? WTH? Half of our stuff is in storage right now. Her plan is to start setting up stuff so she can really live in the house like it's a home because before it's been kept just so so for the showings but she's tired of that. That's great for her. But what about us? All our stuff is in storage. I can't just go and bring my things back. Where would I put them? He makes some reference to us just getting rid of our stuff. Why do we have so much stuff? HELLO! We used to live upstairs where it's at least 1800sqft. Our stuff fit upstairs.

ARRGH. So I'm a little bummed out right now and not feeling all that charitable to the inlaws.

4 comments:

  1. I'm sorry things aren't going well for you right now. What else can I say, except that really sucks? :-(

    I hope your week goes better!

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  2. I've heard it said (once or twice) that every challenge is an opportunity for growth. If that's true, your situation makes for a full on growth spurt!

    And failure isn't an option based on what you've described. Staying in business for five years (and perhaps longer) is no small feat. Congratulations, no matter what you decide, are definitely in order!

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  3. I'm sorry you're going through all that. I'd love to give you some helpful advice or better yet a buyer for the house, but alas, I've got nothing.

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  4. There isn't much to say.. just a little sympathy goes a long way so thank you.

    Besides, just writing it down helps me work it all through and that's a good thing. :)

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